Tips that might show you when a girl is just not that into you.
1. “I’m just not ready for a relationship right now.” What she’s really saying: “I don’t want a relationship with you.” It doesn’t have to be a serious relationship. It’not like you’re proposing or anything. But if you
asked a girl out (or tried to; repeatedly) and she eventually says that she’s not ready for…
well…anything right now, that means that she’s just not that into you. When a girl really likes a guy, trust me, she will want to spend every waking moment with that guy. And if it clicks,
she will want to spend more and more time with him.
2. “I feel like I should focus on myself more,” or “I feel like I should find myself right now.” What she’s really saying: “I’d rather be single than be with you.” Don’t take it personally, it’s just that from her perspective, you’re not really compatible. Girls usually know from the second they see you if you’re boyfriend material or not.
3. Line: “I just don’t see you that way.” What she’s really saying: “You’re totally friendzoned.” Ah, the friendzone. A dangerous, mythical place where so many perish, but few come
back from wholeheartedly. Truth of the matter is, people that get friendzoned are either A. not
attractive to that specific girl or B. not boyfriend material, but mostly A. Don’t get me wrong, you may be a real hunk of a man, but attractiveness is very subjective, and depending on so many factors that change
from person to person. If one chick is attracted to bulky guys, another definitely finds
skinny nerds to be incredibly HOT and so on.
4. “This is sooo not the time, but maybe…in the future.” What she’s really saying: “Still don’t want to be in a relationship with you right now, but please do continue to boost my ego.” Not only is this girl not into you right now, but she’s also pretty much using you to get the male attention that she wants in order to feel
better about herself.
5. “I already have someone/am already seeing someone.” (even though
you know for a fact, she’s not!) What she’s really saying: “Please don’t talk to me again or my imaginary boyfriend will kick your ass.” Sometimes chicks like to make up fake boyfriends for various and intricate reasons.
One would be that they’re tired of cheesy pickup lines and want to cut it short. Another is
when they don’t think the guy hitting on them even deserves the chance of a date. Third reason is: when they don’t want to hurt any feelings, and they’re afraid of telling the guy
that they’re just not that into him.
6. Situation: not answering calls and/or
not calling back What she’s really saying: “Please take the hint and leave me alone.” If you’ve called this girl on a Friday and it’s already next Friday and you haven’t heard anything from her, then it’s pretty clear that
she’s not interested. Interested people pick up their phones, call back when necessary, and
text when they get a chance.
7. Situation: ‘message seen at …’ What she’s really saying: “I read what you said but I have no interest whatsoever in replying now….or ever.” This is the worst of the worst and I personally hate Facebook for having this feature. If she’s not replying back within a day but has Facebook activity (ie: selfies, check-in, etc) then my man, I am sorry to say that she is just
not that into you.
8. “I’m really busy this week.” What she’s really saying: “I really don’t want to hang out with you.” This is the case of the modern busy girl. Which many of us truly are, balancing a full
time job, a couple of other projects and a social life (plus family). But if she says she’s
busy this week and doesn’t tell you when she is available (ie: “busy this week, but let’s meetup next Monday“) it’s almost as saying that she will be permanently busy
9. Line: “oh, I wish I could, but I’m sick.” (Then checks-in at a club or public place) What she’s really saying: “This is not how I want to spend my day/night.” Pretty self-explanatory.
10. Situation: when asked to do something, she’s never really sure/
keeps avoiding it. Line: “maybe…I don’t know”, “I’m doing something now, but maybe later” “Idk, I’ll call
you later” but never really calls. What she’s really saying: “If I’m really bored and have nothing else better to do, maybe I’ll go out with you. Or maybe not”. When she’s always avoiding getting together
with you, and is never really sure when or what to do, it’s just another sign. Again, when a
chick digs you she will say yes to pretty much anything that involves spending time with you.
When she’s not that into you she will always find ways to avoid seeing you.
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