1)You're putting more into it than them
You find
yourself putting more of yourself into the relationship than them.
You’re responsible for so much more in every area of your lives. They
sit around while you do all the work to keep life going.
2) They exhaust you
And not in a
good way. You should feel loaded with energy when you’re around the one
you love, not totally stressed and exhausted.
3) You don't look forward to doing things with them
This is the
clearest sign something is wrong.You’re set to go do something fun and
instead of being excited you're dreading them.
4) There just isn't any spark
Maybe there was a time when the spark was there, but now, life is boring.Relationships should bring out excitement and enthusiasm, not strain you and bore you.
5) You can't picture the future together
Ten years from
now, where do you see yourself? In another city? Working another job?
Having kids? Having a dog? If you can’t picture them in your life, it’s
time to move on.
6) You feel defensive
If you feel like
you have to defend yourself against the one you love, you may love the
wrong person. You shouldn’t have to protect yourself against them of all
people.
7) You don't want to bring them around people you like
Bringing them
home for the holidays or out for a night on the town with your pals
seems like an awful idea. It’s almost as though you’re embarrassed by
them. It’s yet another sign.
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