There is this unspoken but common behaviour where women stay subdued and
reactive in the bedroom, leaving the man to call all the shots – when to
have sex, where to have sex and how to have sex...
Too many people have too many wrong perceptions about attraction and sex…
Too many people have too many wrong perceptions about attraction and sex…
In
a man-woman relationship, there is this tendency, usually on the female
part, to let the other person take over…including in the bedroom
Especially
among African (Nigerian) women, there is this unspoken but common
behaviour where women stay subdued and reactive in the bedroom, leaving
the man to call all the shots – when to have sex, where to have sex and how to have sex.
It is even gets worse… many women will not say anything about their desires, fantasies and preferences in the bedroom.
The result of this is that most women get far less than they deserve from sex, cheated out by themselves and their selfish men.
So,
to end this trend, Wha’anda brings you 6 sex etiquettes that will make
sex more rewarding, participatory and complete for couples.
Here we go…
- When men are aroused, they hardly notice your flaws – many women are too body conscious. They hold back when having sex because they think the man is focussed on their body flaws. But the truth is that, during sexual arousal, neurochemical rush men feel so grips the man that he is too ‘high’ to see all those inconsequential flaws. So loosen up and enjoy the experience…
- Sex can sometimes be painful – it is not every time that you feel pain during sex that something is terribly wrong. Sometimes, it just might be inadequate lubrication, dryness in the vagina or you’re mentally not ready. If the pain is regular, then you might need to see a doctor.
- During sex, a man’s body is more than his penis – many women find it hard to completely arouse their men because they focus only on his penis, thinking that is where it all begins and ends. This is wrong, touch his other parts like his lips, neck, ear lobes, chest, back, nape, inner thighs and groin. All these parts should be touched and loved…
- Men love women who take charge in the bedroom – yes, men love to be the bosses. But men also like women who are proactive more than those who let them doing all the initiating. As a woman, it is a turn on to do things to him, show him you want, whisper in his ear, demonstrate and juts take charge…
- It is normal to want more and more sex – the truth is that sex is addictive, such that the more you have it the more you’ll want it. This doesn’t make you abnormal because sexual urge is normal. So just enjoy it and don’t allow misplaced guilt to spoil the moment…
- Touching yourself during sex us okay – many women believe that touching themselves during sex is a sign of being ‘bad’ and so they resist the urge. But many men find it a major turn-on when the woman touches herself during sex. So doing it will help you find release and help your man get even more aroused…
In
addition to the above, it is advisable that you make sure you are
mentally and physically ready to have sex before you get into the
bedroom so that you don’t end up being mechanical.
If you can, first take some time out for yourself to clear your head and get off the edge from the day's stress.
You could have a quick shower and rest a little before the action….
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